Broken bones, Surgery and Gingerbread houses. :)

I must admit, it has been awhile since i last wrote. I apologize.  Alot has happened. First off.  i had to get another surgery.  Which is no fun.  Considering they give you pain meds after. Which makes me sick and makes  me loose my appetite. BUT at least they got the disease out.They stuck me 7 times with an IV needle... they couldn't find a vein... i wonder why... they told me not to eat or drink anything past 12!  lol  when i asked if another nurse could come in and give it a go, she got it in one try. haha   but i have 4 busted veins due to the lack of ..whatever you call it... responsibility? eh... anyways.  so i have alot of holes in my arms.  I'm in quite a bit of pain but i am doing better. I have had alot of help from my parents.  I feel completely like a terrible mother. Having had my kids gone everyday all day since the surgery has been hard.  They come home at night so i can be with them. but my body cant handle the rambunctious little boys. My body needs rest.
At the beginning of the month i broke my knee cap.. that went splendidly.    It really wasn't that bad though.. just a crack.  

  I AM PROUD TO ANNOUNCE  I finally said i was done with Jared and Kristin Miller!( round of applause please)   Ben's parents.  Seriously. Im so over their bull crap.  They bring up the past way to much, they don't trust anything i have to say for some ungodly reason,and yet they say they want peace....hmmmmm. yet they constantly abuse, intergiate,    oh and to top it off they called the police on me. hahah it was quite the weird experience actually.   The first thing i did when i walked into their house was, i'm not here to fight, its 9 30 at night i came to get my husband and children and to go home. i'm very tired.   and next thing you know they are calling the police.   The police came,  afterwords the woman police came up to me and thought they were delusional. They saw no point in them calling.  I was in a total state of  mind of " what the hell is their problem"   anyways. the kids were asleep luckily, if they weren't i would have had a much bigger problem with the Millers.  They are just gems let me tell ya,  anyways. bottom line is, they have lost the privilege of being grandparents to my children  i told them that they were no longer allowed to see or talk to them. in front of the police.  The police agreed that they need to back off.  They just are drama and total idiots. And i don't want that around my children especially if they cannot forget the past, move on etc. or yet alone even try to get along with me.. Ben has come to see that they have issues they obviously need to work out. And i'm not going to take the blame anymore.   Everyone sees Jared and Kristin as heavenly creatures when in all reality, they are hellions.  You have no idea. Like i said. I will not let my kids be around that poison or see it.. When they want to grow up. They can give me a call and we can work something out.    But i will not be treated as dirt anymore.  
Shiloh is walking and clapping his hands like crazy. :) Gets into everything!  Jasper has quite the imagination and says " ridiculous" alot.  " mom that's ridiculous"  hahah   Shy still has no teeth.  :(  makes me wonder.    we only have 4 more months in this place and than we are OUT FOR GOOD AND INTO A HOUSE OF OUR OWN!!!    
My parents are finally back from missions for at least a month! Thank goodness!  My birthday is coming up:)    Which means going to our park city condo:) like we do every year..  Tomorrow we get to go to Ben's work thing,  Every year they give out a 500$ gift card to Costco for a Christmas gift and a Christmas bonus of 1500$   so we are going to do our Christmas shopping done tomorrow at Costco. His work reserved a Costco for the employees that day.  I'm excited even though i will be in a wheel chair. Its shopping and i flourish when it comes to shopping! :)   Its been quite the month!  Anyways!    
We have done alot of fun activities including gingerbread houses, cookies, putting up the Christmas tree etc.  Hope you enjoy the photos!!! 

We got family photos done.  Jasper didnt really like doing that.... But we managed to get one picture of him smiling, kinda... so im grateful for that! We got some cute ones of the family though!   I already sent out greeting cards:)! wahoo! ontime!!!!